bereavement [bereavements](The state of being bereaved; deprivation; especially the loss of a relative by death) noun [UK: bɪ.ˈriːv.mənt] [US: bə.ˈriːv.mənt]
chagrin(distress from failure; vexation or mortification) noun [UK: ˈʃæ.ɡrɪn] [US: ʃə.ˈɡrɪn]