учтивый означает в английский

courteous▼(showing regard for others)
adjective
[UK: ˈkɜː.tɪəs] [US: ˈkɝː.tiəs]

gentle [gentler, gentlest]▼(polite and respectful rather than rude)
adjective
[UK: ˈdʒen.tl̩] [US: ˈdʒen.tl̩]

polite▼(well-mannered)
adjective
[UK: pə.ˈlaɪt] [US: pə.ˈlaɪt]

urbane▼(courteous, polite, refined, suave, and sophisticated)
adjective
[UK: ɜː.ˈbeɪn] [US: ər.ˈbeɪn]