обходительный означает в английский

courteous▼(showing regard for others)
adjective
[UK: ˈkɜː.tɪəs] [US: ˈkɝː.tiəs]

debonair▼((obsolete) Gracious, courteous)
adjective
[UK: ˌde.bə.ˈneə(r)] [US: ˌde.bə.ˈner]

gallant▼(honourable)
adjective
[UK: ɡə.ˈlænt] [US: ˈɡæ.lənt]

suave▼(charming, confident and elegant)
adjective
[UK: swɑːv] [US: ˈswɑːv]

urbane▼(courteous, polite, refined, suave, and sophisticated)
adjective
[UK: ɜː.ˈbeɪn] [US: ər.ˈbeɪn]